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Communication

Getting Over Frustration With Parents

I couldn’t decide if I was frustrated or depressed. Maybe I was feeling both. Only nine parents showed up for our information meeting on Confirmation...

Bring Your Leadership To A New Level

Two, then three and then four years would pass by and I was frustrated. I was frustrated because I wondered, “When would we arrive?” Meaning, when...

conflict

When Your Pastor Chews You Out

No one, especially my pastor, likes to be caught off guard. Surprises allow emotions to take over and it causes the situation to grow complex. When...

change

Attitudes Leaders Should Avoid Embracing

“Shouldn’t we go this way?” shouted someone from the back. “No, I think it wants us to go right.” We were at a crossroads on the Appalachian Trail...

accountability

Do You Have Solidarity With Your Volunteers?

It felt like people were conspiring against me. It was another email from a volunteer saying, “I can’t make it, something came up.” I was ready to...

adult discipleship

What’s Your Discipleship Path?

The other day someone on staff asked, “What our discipleship path?” In other words, “How are we growing disciples at our church?” It’s a challenging...

conflict

Make Meetings More Than A Meeting

If you need to meet with me make it worth my time.  I’m a meeting snob, because I have little margin and do not want it compromised.  I want to…

Your Rebuild Mode For Your Youth Ministry

With the Superbowl done and the NFL season over, many teams are in the midst of that dreaded region known as “Rebuilding Mode.” Every team has...

What To Do With Cliques

Cliques are bad right? I mean there has to be something wrong when a group of teenagers are hanging out in the corner not aware of others. Or, is...

Basic Traits For Small Groups

I’m often asked by other youth ministers, “What are the traits of your small group program?” Small groups sound simple, yet they’re messy. And...

The Need For Instant Results

“Refresh, refresh, refresh!” I don’t have cable so once in a while I have to watch my teams play on my phone. I want the instant results of each...

How To Create A Message Map

There have been more times than I can count when I’ve just stared at the screen not knowing what to write. This is frustrating as a communicator. You...