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accountability

When A Student Drops A Bomb

It breaks your heart, when a teen opens up and shares with you that they’re hurting. It changes the way you look at youth ministry. Almost like...

A Book 10 Years In The Making

I love writing about my experiences in youth ministry. For years those stories have been shared in one on one conversations and this blog. People who...

Connect Outside Your Network

I love youth ministers, because they are my people. I love talking shop and sharing moments. And then there are the times when I need a break. That’s...

Find Your Productive Boost

Some of my most productive moments happen on a plane. I’m locked into a seat, with nowhere to go and the view out my window is priceless. While I...

5 Priceless Gifts To Give Volunteers

All they wanted was file space. After years of asking, I finally found time and space in my file drawer for some of our office volunteers to store...

Communication

Getting Over Frustration With Parents

I couldn’t decide if I was frustrated or depressed. Maybe I was feeling both. Only nine parents showed up for our information meeting on Confirmation...

Bring Your Leadership To A New Level

Two, then three and then four years would pass by and I was frustrated. I was frustrated because I wondered, “When would we arrive?” Meaning, when...

conflict

When Your Pastor Chews You Out

No one, especially my pastor, likes to be caught off guard. Surprises allow emotions to take over and it causes the situation to grow complex. When...

change

Attitudes Leaders Should Avoid Embracing

“Shouldn’t we go this way?” shouted someone from the back. “No, I think it wants us to go right.” We were at a crossroads on the Appalachian Trail...

accountability

Do You Have Solidarity With Your Volunteers?

It felt like people were conspiring against me. It was another email from a volunteer saying, “I can’t make it, something came up.” I was ready to...

adult discipleship

What’s Your Discipleship Path?

The other day someone on staff asked, “What our discipleship path?” In other words, “How are we growing disciples at our church?” It’s a challenging...

conflict

Make Meetings More Than A Meeting

If you need to meet with me make it worth my time.  I’m a meeting snob, because I have little margin and do not want it compromised.  I want to…