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Surviving Opening Weekend

The fall season for high school ministry kicked off Thursday and I’m wiped already. Today middle school gets up and running again. I’m tired and...

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Who Are You Trying To Fool?

As a father I’m at that point where I need to check my behavior because I’m being watched.  I’ve recently realized that my son is at an age where he…

How I Write A Message

When I first got into ministry my experience with creating and giving a message was few and far between. I had given talks on retreats as a teen and...

How To Ruin Your Day Off

Chances are you’ve done work on your day off.  Shame on you…shame on me, cause I’m guilty of it.  If you have to do it once or twice it’s not…

3 Things To Avoid In The Morning

In college I used to drink a nice cold can of Dr. Pepper to wake myself up.  In about an hour my stomach would be churning in pain.  I know…

You Need To Push Harder

My body is tired, but it should be more tired. I did a 10 miler yesterday in preparation for the Baltimore Half Marathon in October. During the run I...

Don’t Overlook This Habit

Light sleep, bad sleep, no sleep, it’s been the theme of the week and it’s made me realize how important sleep is, especially for youth ministry. If...

3 Keys To Communication…just 3

Went for a run at 5am yesterday morning and two things stuck out. It was really dark and, really loud. With Hurricane Irene, many people still do not...

How To Move Through The Unexpected

It was a little bit of a shocker. Yesterday, Arch Bishop O’Brien (Arch Bishop of Baltimore) announced Pope Benedict XVI had appointed him Grand...

Fighting Jealousy

Thank God for neighbors with chainsaws. I was awoken at 5am by this humongous tree crashing on this not so humongous tree in my neighbor’s yard....

Before You Run Into A Storm: Risk Preparation

There is something about extreme weather that stirs a voice deep inside of me that shouts, “Run in it!”  A few years ago I went running in the 3 feet…

What’s The Most Important Part Of Your Job?

I’m not sure if I’m subconsciously trying to be a Jack of all trades or just a really busy guy.  This week I have to write a message, meet with…