Why Small Groups Should Be The Backbone Of Your Ministry

Tonight my small group of high school guys gets going again, and I’m ecstatic. First, it’ll be good to welcome back a few of the returners, and then there are a few new guys I cannot wait to meet. Many of my leaders are excited to get things going this week, and that’s because small groups have not only had an impact on the lives of teens but the adults who are involved.

As long as I’ve been in ministry, small groups have been a part of the programs I’ve overseen. They’ve always had value in my eye, but since the pandemic started, I’ve seen that value grown. Small groups are important, but I believe they should be the structural backbone of every youth ministry. While it’s still important to incorporate large group gatherings, service opportunities, and retreats:

SMALL GROUPS RESPOND TO A TEEN’S NEED FOR BELONGING

Research from Springtide Institute points to the fact that young people have a deep desire to belong. Small groups address this desire by inviting young people into a community where it’s hard to get lost.  It’s easy for leaders to get to know the names and for teens to feel like they are heard. The conversations can go deeper quickly because everyone has a chance to participate.

If teens feel like they belong, they’ll not only come back but feel a connection to the church. Their small group leaders will be an excellent model of how the Church cares about them and is accessible.

SMALL GROUPS ARE MANAGEABLE AND ADAPTABLE

During the pandemic, there were times groups had to go virtual because of social distancing mandates. There were also times when it was better to meet outside than inside. If one leader could not make it, it was easy to cancel that group without sacrificing the others.

Small groups are not only adaptable when you have to move them but also with topics to discuss. It’s easier to meet the spiritual needs of different teens because one group could do a Bible study while another does something more topical. If one group wants to skip a night to serve in a soup kitchen and another wants to do something social, you don’t have to overhaul the program.

SMALL GROUPS ALLOW LIFELONG HABITS TO GROW

Larger events like praise and worship nights, adoration, or retreats can profoundly impact a young person. Larger formats can introduce new ideas and push someone out of their comfort zone. Small groups can do the same; however, they can foster habits that can be done in a group and individual lesson.

A leader can set out a challenge (e.g., memorize a verse), and the group can create accountability. The group can commit to serving together regularly, which teaches a young person the importance of serving regularly. And meeting consistently to talk about one’s faith can help a young person develop their personal witness.

Building a small group culture does not happen overnight; however, their impact is long-lasting. To start building your groups start small by inviting a few teens to meet with two leaders for a few weeks in a row. Over time make some adjustments, track progress, and slowly invite others to join. If you are looking to learn more about groups, visit MYM U HERE.

What do small groups look like in your parish?