The Church Podcast

Episode 049 – Parenting, Identity, and Cultural Ambassadors (Part 2) with Dr. Julia Sadusky

Written by Christopher Wesley | Feb 24, 2026 1:37:22 PM

In Part 2 of this conversation with Dr. Julia Sadusky, Christopher and Julia move from principles to practice.

If Part 1 focused on integration and posture, Part 2 tackles the real-world questions parents and ministry leaders are actually facing:

  • “When did this get so complicated?”
  • “When should I talk to my kids about sex and pornography?”
  • “How do I protect my kids without isolating them?”
  • “What does it mean to care for people on the margins in distinctively Catholic ways?”

Julia draws from her books on gender and sexual identity, her clinical work, and years of youth ministry experience to offer grounded, developmentally wise guidance for families and churches.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

  • Why simple explanations (“It’s just peer influence”) often backfire
  • How to talk about sexuality without shame or panic
  • Why forecasting conversations protects better than silence
  • The importance of using accurate language at home
  • What it means to raise “cultural ambassadors,” not cultural isolationists
  • How parishes can visibly signal belonging without compromising teaching
  • Practical ministries walking faithfully with people navigating these questions

Key Takeaways from Part 2

  • Protection does not mean isolation—it means preparation.
  • Teens are not fragile; they need frameworks, not fear.
  • Saying “There’s nowhere else I’d rather you go with your questions than home” may be the most important sentence a parent can say.
  • Silence communicates more than we think.
  • Distinctively Catholic accompaniment is possible—and needed.

Julia Recommends:

Books:

Redeeming Heartache by Dan Allender

Organizations:

Eden Invitation

Building Catholic Futures

Revoice

Posture Shift

Connect with Julia

Learn more about her books, speaking, and parent resources at:
juliasadusky.com

Get 10% off Julia’s Course: Talking To Your Teens when you use coupon code Thechurchpodcast10 https://talkingtoyourteencourse.com/

🎧 Be sure to listen to Part 2 (Episode 049), where we go deeper into gender identity, parenting, cultural formation, and practical parish strategies.

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