Episode 045 – Ministry Questions We’re Afraid to Ask (Q&A Edition)

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Episode 045 – Ministry Questions We’re Afraid to Ask (Q&A Edition)

The Church Podcast

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In this honest and pastoral Q&A episode of The Church Podcast, Christopher Wesley responds to three real questions submitted anonymously by ministry leaders who are navigating the everyday tensions of parish life. From engaging parents in faith formation, to holding people accountable without becoming judgmental, to discerning where to turn when ministry work and parish life collide—this episode names struggles many leaders feel but rarely say out loud.

Drawing from his own experience as a ministry leader, parent, coach, and fellow pilgrim, Christopher offers grounded wisdom, practical ideas, and gentle reminders that ministry is deeply human work. If you’ve ever felt frustrated, exhausted, unsure of yourself, or simply in need of perspective, this episode is an invitation to slow down, listen more deeply, and remember you are not alone in this work.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Start with grace when it comes to parents. What we see at church is only part of the story—equipping parents means supporting their faith first and helping them integrate faith into real, busy lives.
• Accountability flows from trust, not control. Learning to listen well and understand the story beneath the behavior creates space for growth without judgment.
• You can’t do ministry in isolation. When work and worship overlap, outside community, peer networks, and professional support aren’t luxuries—they’re essential.
• Different struggles need different supports. Spiritual direction, coaching, and therapy each serve unique purposes and can work together for holistic health.
• Burnout isn’t failure—it’s a signal. Paying attention, bringing things into the light, and giving yourself permission to rest can be acts of faith, not weakness.

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