In this lively and wisdom-filled episode, Christopher Wesley sits down with Ela Milewska, Director of Franciscan Media. With more than 30 years of experience spanning parish, diocesan, national, and now digital ministry, Ela shares her journey from a small-town Catholic upbringing to shaping how the Church engages people online today. Ela opens up about her path into ministry, the mentors and experiences that formed her, and what she’s learning about digital accompaniment in reaching the “middle of the pew” Catholic—those who show up but often feel unseen.
She unpacks how Franciscan spirituality, the theology of Duns Scotus, and her own hard-earned wisdom guide her work in helping people discover they are truly “enough” and deeply loved by God. This conversation is full of practical insights and hopeful vision: from embracing intentionality and professionalism in ministry, to avoiding burnout by remembering ministry is personal—but not to be taken personally.
Key Takeaways
- A Reluctant but Faithful Call: Despite attempts to pursue other careers, Ela continually found herself drawn back to ministry, discovering God’s call woven into her life.
- Formation and Language Matter: Graduate and doctoral studies gave Ela not just knowledge but the language and confidence to engage ministry with depth.
- Intentional Accompaniment: What once came naturally in parish life must now be taught and modeled—welcoming, listening, and walking with others with purpose.
- Digital Accompaniment: Franciscan Media is creating journeys that meet people where they are and connect them to real-life communities.
- The “Middle of the Pew” Catholic: Many feel unseen, juggling family, work, and faith. They are often most ready for accompaniment if the Church listens with compassion.
- Professionalism as a Calling: Being prepared, accountable, and intentional honors God and those we serve.
What Ela Recommends
- Go-To Tools: Her “wisdom group” of trusted colleagues, a whiteboard for focus, and “Sparky” (her name for ChatGPT) used wisely.
- What She’s Reading:
Connect with Ela and Franciscan Media
Website: franciscanmedia.org
(Explore resources including Saint of the Day, books, articles, and digital evangelization tools.
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