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It’s a humbling experience to think back to my early days of youth ministry because I think about my stubbornness and inability to let things go. I remember receiving an email from a frustrated parent, telling me how disappointed she was in the affect my ministry was having on her teens. It was the type of email that cut to my heart and filled me with self doubt. So what did I do?
I obsessed over it. I printed out the email, taped it to the back of a binder and dwelled on phrases and words trying to justify why she felt that way. After talking to my pastor I realized what I was doing was wrong and that I needed to let go, so I threw away the letter and promised myself I would never allow a parent or anyone’s criticism get to me. I would like to say I’ve been perfect, but that would suggest that Satan’s given up on stealing my joy. But, I’m still here and it’s because I’ve learned to:
You can’t control how everyone will respond to the way you lead your ministry; however, you can control how you respond. Leaning into the situation, realizing it’s a moment in the journey and not the end will help you stay on course.
What’s your stumbling block when it comes to facing criticism?