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Before You Hire, Build the Role

Written by Christopher Wesley | Aug 13, 2026, 1:34:53 PM

Marathon Youth Ministry has grown a lot this past year, and my task list has grown right along with it. My capacity hasn't.

A few weeks ago I sat down with my advisory board, and they brought up something I hadn't thought about in a while. They reminded me how I used to build youth ministry teams at the parish. Back then I was intentional about every role I created. I prioritized managing and caring for my volunteers, not just filling gaps.

Sitting in that meeting, I had to admit I wasn't doing that for MYM anymore. I was reacting to whatever felt most urgent that week instead of building the structure the organization actually needs.

I know this pattern because I see it constantly in the parishes and dioceses I work with. A pastor knows he needs a youth minister. He finds someone willing, someone with a heart for the kids, and he offers the job. There's no real interview process, no job description, no employee manual. The new hire says yes because they want to serve, and within months they're overwhelmed. They go to the pastor for direction and hear, "Well, I hired you to figure that out."

Nobody in that exchange is trying to be dismissive. The pastor is stretched thin. The new hire is willing but directionless. Everyone is doing their best with no structure underneath them, and the ministry pays for it in burnout and turnover.

The Church doesn't need to run like a corporation. But we do need enough structure that "I need help" turns into an actual role before we ask someone to fill it.

AUDIT THE WORK BEFORE THE BUDGET

Before you post a job or ask the parish council for a new line item, write down everything currently happening that nobody's officially responsible for. Not job titles, actual tasks. The Wednesday night setup. The reminder emails to those registered for the upcoming information meeting. The checking of kitchen supplies before the next parish picnic. You can't design a role around work you haven't named, and most parishes hire before they've done this step.

SEPARATE MISSION FROM MAINTENANCE

Once the list exists, sort it. Some of it requires this specific person's gifts and relationships with teens and families. Some of it just requires a competent, present adult. A Director of Youth Ministry should be forming disciples, not troubleshooting the parish Wi-Fi. A bookkeeper should be making sure the finances are in order, not planning the next parish social night. All these jobs matter. But, they are not the same job, and combining them by default is what burns good people out.

JOB DESCRIPTIONS ARE GUIDES, NOT FORMALITIES

A job description isn't paperwork you file away after the offer letter goes out. It's the thing your new hire (or volunteers) returns to when the role starts drifting, and the thing you return to when a well-meaning request threatens to expand it. Without it, every reasonable-sounding ask becomes part of the job, one at a time, until nobody remembers what the position was supposed to be.

I think about the youth minister who hears "I hired you to figure that out" and wonders what they signed up for. That's not a failure of character on either side. It's a failure of process, and process is something we can actually fix.

If you're building out a team, or watching someone on your staff quietly absorb every unclaimed task in the building, this is where to start. It's also exactly the kind of thing we work through with leaders inside Ministry Coach, because a healthy ministry starts with a role that was built on purpose. CHECK IT OUT FOR FREE